Something about Mirror
Monday, October 20th, 2008Something about Mirror
I like looking at myself in the mirror very much. Maybe it is kind of narcissism, well I just like it. And I am sure that most of the girls like mirror and even boys, who seldom admit it. Believe or not, according to a survey, males care about their appearance much more than females and look in the mirror more often then females. And that throw out a question, “Is mirror only for checking physical outlooks for human?”
The answer from my view is not, absolutely not. Individuals love to look in the mirror and find themselves not only because they want to see themselves physically but also to recognize themselves and see the confidence and smile on their face. In that case, mirror is not only the glasses with reflection. In fact, it is the mirror of personality and self-acceptance.
Let’s come back to Lacan.
The ego is kind of combination of self-image and self-identification. For infants, they have no idea of self and also ego. So when they look in the mirror for the first time, they get confused and even angry. They yell, shout and cry which helps nothing with the situation. And then they finally find out, if they smile and be friendly to the mirror, they will get feedback in the same way. I guess that is one of the reasons why adults like mirror since they may obtain what they want in return from their own behaviors.
In reality, mirror is not only mirror and also not only mirrors can be mirrors. All kinds of objects, abstractive or not, can be mirrors. Girls look at themselves in the mirror while dressing up, boys look at themselves in the mirror while shaving, babies look themselves while learning and at the same time, people look at others’ faces while talking in order to get feedback, producers look at selling numbers to learn the market and editors look at the audience for deeper inspirit. When it comes to talk about ego, I would like to say something about films. On one hand, films, on some degree, are the reflection of deep thinking and kind of ego of the editor. On the other hand, all the audience have different thoughts and different personalities and understandings based on different background. That is why different individual has totally different comments or comprehensions towards the same film. In that case, film is just the mirror, telling who you are and what you are thinking about while watching the movie and what you have experienced or what kind of ego or personality you have which is different from others. That is similar with other personal preference, such as music, fiction, TV programs and brands. Certain group has certain hobbies or likes which can tell others what kind of people they are or which class they are belonging to. All the stuffs above are mirrors in our social life.
Mirrors are everywhere. Anything in our life and anybody around us can be a mirror. Human beings are social animals and we need respondent and feedback from others so that we would know in which way we could express ourselves better and also we get information about how others think about ourselves. And communication is brought out at this point. Language is the most important element in communication, both writing and speaking. We often take it granted that what we speak everyday is just what it should be. But when it comes to a second language, the situation is different. For the first language, it has already be a part of our unconscious personality since we were born with this certain language and we are exposed to this environment since we were born. But the second language is another thing. We have to pay special attention and effort to learn how to speak and how to master the language in a logical way, like grammar. But we don’t learn grammar before we can speak our own language. In this case, language is a sign telling us what group we are belonging to and which society is new to us.
Sometimes, mirror has magical power like the one in fairy tales. It not only can reflect our looks but also our thoughts.






