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"Today I will marry
my best friend...
the one I laugh with, live for, dream with
and love."




~Special Event~

The most wonderful wedding to ever take place
at St. John's Church!

Brian Black & Vicki Parker
June 8, 2002 at 6:30pm
 

No wedding goes off perfect and ours was no exception. However, everything that went "wrong" was easily dealt with and the wedding was as close to perfect as we could hope for.

We arrived in Galena, Illinois on Thursday night, June 6th, and realized that we had forgotten the Programs and our checkbook at home in Indiana.  Thank goodness for Copy Works and ATM machines!

The 8 centerpieces that we had worked so diligently on for weeks before the wedding were all ruined when Vicki dropped one on top of the box holding all the others and glass shattered all over the rest of them.  Crystal gels were put in glass globes and water was added to make it translucent.  Rose garland was glued around the base. Confetti and small plastic doves and gold rings were placed in the globe.  They seem to float inside the globe.  A rose colored candle was placed on top.  Only one centerpiece survived.

Uncle Don got lost driving from the motel to the church.  It wasn't realized until after Michael and Joseph rolled out the aisle runner and the ceremony was about to begin.  Luckily, he and the girls and Grandma Grace arrived about 5 minutes later.  Brian pinned his Grandmother's corsage and seated her, and the wedding was ready to begin!

Brian and Michael walked down the aisle and waited with the Pastor at the front of the church.  The music began, (Chapel of Love) and Sarah started down the aisle.  Next came Brian, and then Tori.  So far, so good.  The Bridal music began (Visions of Love), and just as Vicki and Joseph were preparing to start walking down the aisle, a Cat darted in from outside and ran down the aisle of the church.  Everyone in the church gasped at once which freaked the cat out who turned to run back outside but found himself facing Vicki, Joseph and Becky (the wedding hostess) so he froze not knowing what to do.  Becky rushed in to get the cat and toss him outside and Vicki and Joseph proceeded down the aisle.

One of the things that we heard and read over and over again as we planned our wedding was that no matter what went wrong ,"In the end you will  be married and That is what counts!"  How true that is. We got through the upsets without letting anything actually upset us, and in the end we were indeed married. That is what counts. 
That's what made the day perfect!

Our Wedding Ceremony

About the music....

One evening, Vicki was sitting in McDonalds enjoying an ice cream cone with her children when she heard a song playing that she just fell in love with.  Rushing home, she hopped on the internet and searched for what she thought must be the title of the song.  That's how she discovered Jim Brickman.  The song she heard in McDonald's was "Your Love", sung by Michelle Wright  with Jim Brickman playing the piano.  More searching  and listening led to a realization that our wedding music had finally been found!  Guests listened to Jim Brickman piano solos during the wedding prelude.  While searching for more on Jim Brickman, we came across a tune played by him and jazz artist Dave Koz titled "Visions of Love".  Vicki knew she didn't want to walk down the aisle to a typical bridal march and as soon as she heard "Visions of Love", she just knew it would work wonderfully.  It was all very non-traditional, but we think, very beautiful. As a side note... the song "Your Love" is special to us mostly because it is the song that lead to everything else.  But personally, we prefer "Destiny".


Our First Anniversary - Virginia Beach, Virginia

Our Second Anniversary - Niagara Falls, New York

Our Third Anniversary - Pigeon Forge, Tennessee

Our Fourth Anniversary - Wisconsin Dells, Wisconsin

Our Fifth Anniversary - Galena, Illinois

Our Sixth Anniversary - St. Louis, Missouri

Our Seventh Anniversary - Lexington, Kentucky

Our Eighth Anniversary - Banning Mills, Georgia

Our Ninth Anniversary - San Francisco, California